No. I don’t want this. I don’t fit in the box that you want me in. I am more than a toy. I want more depth in my connections. Don’t kiss me goodbye if you don’t mean it. Kisses are about affection and connection. Don’t kiss me if you don’t want that. Don’t tell me… Continue reading What I want to have said
Author: wildwitchwondering
I am Bad at Parking
And embracing that has been a good lesson I think that I am starting to see a benefit to owning, and even proclaiming, my flaws. A couple of years ago,I embraced the truth that I am bad at parking. I’m a decent driver and all. But I’m rarely able to pull into that space and… Continue reading I am Bad at Parking
Computer Blessing Ritual
All of a sudden, we have found a lot of our lives need to be lived in electronic formats. Working from home, socializing time, family holidays, weddings and funerals all are online right now. Even many rituals are online. With all that we are asking of our technology I think now would be a good… Continue reading Computer Blessing Ritual
What If You Assume You Will be Welcome?
What if, instead of believing the demons in your headInstead of worrying over who will be there and what will happenWhat if you start with assuming that you will be welcome.What if you assume that there will be something inspiring or beautiful or magical that will happen tonight?What if you start out preparing for the… Continue reading What If You Assume You Will be Welcome?
You Have to Tell the Ones You Love That You Do
Or: Why Valentine’s Day is Vital Hint: This holiday is not Really for newly in love people Here’s the thing: So many people I know in established relationships talk about Valentines Day with contempt. They say “It’s just there to sell cards and candy” and “I hate people telling me I have to give someone… Continue reading You Have to Tell the Ones You Love That You Do
Dressing for the Divine Feminine
A person in a private group I’m part of recently shared that they are unsupressing their Divine Feminine and learning to be more vulnerable as they walk their healing journey. They were looking for stories and encouragement. It got me writing about my own unfolding in this area. On the surface, my story is about… Continue reading Dressing for the Divine Feminine
When Will I Be Good Enough?
It happens. I study and learn. I practice and expand my skill set. It really doesn’t matter what part of life I am looking at: relationships or work skills or witchcraft or singing. It doesn’t even matter how good aI am at whatever has brought me to this thought. Eventually, I am again sitting in… Continue reading When Will I Be Good Enough?
All In
All In I’m someone who likes to be all in with whatever I do. When I’m in a club, I like to go to all the events. When I’m in a job, I like to get everything done that needs to get done, no matter how much time I’m actually paid for. When I’m… Continue reading All In
I’m no Oprah
Today I encountered this video: https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/videos/1977663155881473/ that a friend shared. For those who would rather have a synopsis: The video talks about spending all of your energy on a job that supports your life that supports your job. Wearing the clothes to do the job and driving in the car that you have to work… Continue reading I’m no Oprah